Abundance or Lack? where are you coming from?

It’s interesting that many of us strive for things like:


1.  Financial Abundance 
2. Excellent health and fitness 
3. A business that fits smoothly into our lifestyle (not the other way round) 

Ask us what we want and we’ll easily give you a laundry list.


Yet, if someone were to follow us around for a day they’d notice that our daily actions didn’t come close to aligning with what we said we really wanted.


What they might notice instead, is that...
  • 1. We're living from a state of lack and feel a need to always be ON! And instead of letting go, open up  to receiving, we believe we need to be in control of every step. Every dollar. Every move.
  • 2. Our diet is less than stellar, we rarely exercise, & our environments are actually working against us!
  • We daren't take out foot off the accelerator or we might crash and burn! There's no time to relax.

Nothing wrong with any of that per se, however, if what we say we want is what we really want, then our whole nervous system would be operating at a whole other level. (Whenever you’re struggling to reach a goal or complete a project, check in with your mind, body and emotional system. Are they in alignment?)


ABUNDANCE COMES FROM ABUNDANCE


And even though these examples are a little extreme they’re typical of many of us who say we want something, but don’t follow through. Even though many of us know that when we make a full-bodied Decision (not a nice-to-have) the Universe provides. And then steps in to show us opportunities, people, and experiences to help lead us to that THING that we say we want. All we have to do then is notice and take action. And be open to recieve everything that is coming our way. (so many of us aren't yet ready to receive)


So with our first example, who are operating from lack. What have they attracted?


Yes, more lack.. 


To attract abundance, we need to come from Abundance (the State of) and that’s just the entry fee. Once we’re inside of that, we need to ensure that every thought, feeling, emotion and action also come from Abundance - which then creates this laser-like beam that guides us to the THING that we say we truly want….it’s how the Universe works. (And I’ve proven this so often in my own life) 


So yes, we can manifest pretty much anything we want, but only if we’re willing to step up and take part in the process. And that might involve getting out of our own way.


BUT WHERE'S THE PROOF?


Many of us wait for the thing to materialize, magically by itself, so that THEN  we have the proof first.


And when it doesn’t happen (cos really, we didn’t believe it would) we now have proof that what we really want is out of our reach,. It’s for others, not us. And we return to the status quo, feeling quite proud that “at least we tried”.


Sound familiar?


LET'S CHANGE TACK


Have you ever walked into a small gathering or party where everyone in the room was having a good time? You could sense it in your body and in the atmosphere as you stepped through the door. You wanted to be part of that.


And the moment you walked in you felt welcome, and joined in conversations, laughed, had fun and loved the whole vibe in there.


That’s an example of like attracting like, in an energetic sense. And in the same way, money, health, romance are another set of energetic vibrations that have levels of attraction.


So it makes sense that if you’re coming from a state of lack, none of those higher level energy vibes will even be aware of your presence. (They really don’t CARE where they go, as long as they are an energetic match)


And it’s not about raising your vibration so much as meeting the vibration where it is, and you do that from the inside out. Because that's where the change-power lies. Inside of you. And you have that already just waiting for you to recognise, claim, and put into practice.


KEEP IT SIMPLE


The Universe and its Laws are really quite simple. All you have to do is take a walk in nature to see that. Nothing complicated about how a seed grows into a tree or flower, and eventually dies, goes back into the ground and gives back to the earth.


In the human sense, we plant seeds in our mind, bring them to fruition, with the help of others - and then give back to others. And for all of that we practice gratitude. Which keeps us in that energy zone of abundance that allows us to be do have whatever we TRULY desire.


I love simple, and believe me, nothing is as simple as the world we live in, when we learn how to operate in it and not use it for personal gain.


FALL FLAT, GET UP, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF


What I suggest for you is to begin to trust yourself more, step into possibility, be OK with falling flat a couple of times. Believe in your abilities to be, do, have whatever your heart desires.


And then you will have the pleasure of giving back tenfold. 


What could be better than that? (If you can think of anything, let me know)


And a FYI - by simply following natural laws and allowing yourself to be all you can be, things like money, love, good health and a great life, become by-products, not the main event. The striving and pushing for what you want stops and in its place is ease and flow.


And all of this is just a tiny piece of my  new programme Run your own Race, an 8 week Immersive programme for professional coaches, change-makers and entrepreneurs who are at a point of change in their lives, or feeling stuck, ore simply want to up-level their mind-body-emotion system and meet themselves where they are now, rather than live the rest of their lives with the person they used to be.

Joan Bell

Joan Bell is a Professional Certified Coach, NLP Master Practitioner and very keen mountain biker. When she isn't transforming clients lives you'll find her out riding in the beautiful Australian bushland looking for new exciting trails, or relaxing with her sweetie of 30 years, in their off-grid hideaway. 

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